Sunday, August 28, 2016

This porno got me off (TPGMO) ~ #04 : 'Kathy Flashing'

The full title is actually 'Kathy Flashing and Sex at Brickyard' by Kathy Gray and you can find her complete story here on Literotica. Kathy says her stories are real, but one can never tell with Literotica - personally I just treat them all as fantasy and enjoy them for what they are. Who cares if it really happened or not?

I haven't read anything on Literotica for quite some time, since I mostly used to read them when I was trying to see what my wife was reading. Now that she has changed her iPad password I can't see her browser history, so even though I know she's reading dirty stories (how else to explain all those hours spent on her iPad, at all hours of the day and night?) I don't know which stories she's reading. By tracking what she was reading I was better able to track her sexual mood, and 'deliver' on what she was wanting.

My wife's preferred genres are Taboo (code for Incest), NonConsent/Reluctance (code for coercion or rape), and Interracial (BBC, and usually taking the women by force). She also ventures into Fetish where she finds her 'milk' stories ie women with big lactating breasts, often forced into milking machines where they are pumped for their breast milk but experience immense sexual pleasure while doing so. Basically my wife gets off on big busty women being forced by black men to perform sexually, often via depraved acts in which they have no control but by the end they love it and become willing sex slaves.

Genres my wife does not read are Anal, BDSM (which is a wholly separate genre to Fetish), Loving Wives, Lesbian Sex, or Toys & Masturbation. Can you guess which genres I like? Ha!

Occasionally some of the stories she reads include anal scenes, but that is just as part of the 'forced-against-her-will-to-do-nasty-things' storylines. Any incest stories that involve a mother and son are quickly abandoned, since she only reads the 'young-girl-defiled-by-father/uncle/grandpa' stories. Her other faves are young girl/housewife/working woman forced to have sex with teacher/boss/black man (or men). 

But enough about her, this post is about what got me off. I started reading a few Exhibitionist & Voyeur (watching, or being watched) stories and I popped on this one. Honestly, I could have popped on any of them since I haven't had sex for almost 3 weeks and I was ready to blow! Just as my wife has a preference for women being 'taken' and 'forced' or 'surrendering to their depraved lusts' I have a preference for women revelling in their sex and getting off. I want the women to enjoy what they're doing, and be unabashed about it. So I gravitate to stories where it is the women getting off, and getting off a lot!

I'll let you armchair psychologists make of that what you will!

this is just a small excerpt from a 4 page story

Friday, August 26, 2016

Fetish Friday - Shackled!

It's Fetish Friday, the day sex bloggers have it easy... we just go to our photo files and pull out an image! :P

who likes to be restrained during sex play?

Thursday, August 25, 2016

I went to a bachelor party in a strip club

I went to a Bachelor Party last weekend which ended up in a strip club, as you'd expect.

The party started with Lazer Tag at 4pm, followed by the first of many bars, then dinner, then more bar hopping, then 'The Gentleman's Club' at 10pm. I had to skip dinner so I could join my wife at a fancy restaurant in town since she'd accepted a dinner invitation that I had to attend - even though I'd put the Bachelor Party in our joint digital diary over a month ago.

I didn't mind too much really since the dinner really was great (some visiting Name Chef) and our hosts were paying for it so it would have been rude to decline. The only downside was that by the time I'd dropped my wife home and then returned to catch up with the guys at the Club I was completely sober and they were all ... not sober.

I ordered a drink, but decided not to try 'catching up' since I knew given how trashed the guys were we would be lucky to last another hour. I sat down and cast my critical eye over the strippers...

I used to work in a strip club last century so I pretty much know how it all works. I very rarely go to strip clubs, and when I do it is always as part of a Bachelor Party. Sitting there I realised I seemed to have gone to one each decade, and this gave me a good idea of how stripping had evolved since my time working in a club.

So what's changed in stripping since I was first involved in the 'industry'?

Well, obviously the amount of pubic hair on display has changed dramatically over the decades - but the biggest change? The big thing I noticed on Saturday night was... you can really tell that a lot more women are doing anal now! I mean you can really really tell who's doing it and who isn't doing it now! So much so I actually LOL'ed, for reals.

That asshole has been fucked, amiright?

Wednesday, August 24, 2016

How to Get a Bisexual MMF Threesome on Craigslist?

This is not one of my old posts, but one by Pervertically Virtuous
In the process of recovering my own old posts via email I discovered some of hers. Like me, her old accounts have been terminated, and she seems to have disappeared from the internet. This is a damn shame since I consider her one of the best sex bloggers I've ever had the chance to read and follow. I'm reposting her old posts as a historical archive, and if she ever returns to blogging I'm happy to hand them back to her.
To be clear: the copyright on this work is hers, and remains with her - I didn't write it and I make no claim to it. 

(FYI: some links in this post are dead)

Pervertically Virtuous posted: "After reading about my Craigslist-enabled bisexual MMF threesome experience, a reader sent me the following email. I can't believe that CL actually worked for those lucky guys. I've been under the impression that there aren't any real women on there. Any"

recovered post on Pervertically Virtuous

How to Get a Bisexual MMF Threesome on Craigslist?

by Pervertically Virtuous

After reading about my Craigslist-enabled bisexual MMF threesome experience, a reader sent me the following email:
"I can't believe that CL actually worked for those lucky guys. I've been under the impression that there aren't any real women on there. Any tips for an attractive adventurous bi guy like myself to get my foot in the door, so to speak?"
fucklicking MFM threesome

A s a woman who responds to Craigslist ads posted by bisexual guys, and a couple of times successfully so, here is some advice.
1. Advertise as two bisexual men for a threesome with a woman (in mm4w).
Having a buddy will give you much better chances of a woman responding than if you advertise as a single guy trying to find both a guy and a girl. That makes it easier for the girl - removes one extra step in the process. It also shows higher level of seriousness about the matter on your part, and perhaps prior experience.
Alternatively, you can advertise as a single guy for a couple with a bisexual man (in m4mw). That might be an easier way to find a woman, as a coupled woman might feel more comfortable - and more motivated - going into this with her partner, rather than alone.
2. Regularly check CL for posts by women (w4mm) or couples (mw4m) looking for bi men.
They are not as common as men looking for [insert any combination of m, w, and t], but they are there. Don't dismiss them as fake. Respond to them.
3. Be willing to share pictures. Nice pictures.
hot white man
I knew I wanted to fuck him the minute I saw this
Pics are critical. Doesn't have to show your face necessarily, although that really helps. If discretion is not paramount, it's always good to send a face photo or at least a partial face photo. But always include a photo of the rest of your body in your own CL post or in your first response to someone else's post. If you have a really nice torso, send a naked pic from the waste up. That provides a lot of information: how fit you are, the size of your frame, hairiness, skin color, etc. I have decided I wanted to fuck someone based solely on their gorgeous torso many a time.
If you don't have something to brag about, include a clothed photo. Wearing nice clothes. And no photos of you standing next to your car or yacht.
Do NOT send just cock shots. Some women don't want to see those at all, while other women do (I'm one of them), but I have yet to meet a woman who decided she wanted to fuck a guy based solely on a cock shot. Send a cock shot only when/if specifically asked to.
If you're advertising as two guys, include pictures of BOTH of you! Otherwise you may be wasting each other's time. Recently I saw a post by two bi guys seeking a woman that only included a picture of one of them (no face, in underwear). He was pretty attractive and I would've totally fucked them. I emailed them and went through two days of emails before I finally got a decent full body and face photo of the 2nd guy. He was not attractive, and I called it off. It was a waste of everyone's time.
4. Craft a nice post/response email.
Not too long, not too short. Briefly describe what kind of action and type of person you're looking for, and what you (and your buddy) look like. Five sentences maximum. Don't get too detailed, that comes later.
Please use correct spelling and grammar. Some women don't care about that, but many do (particularly the more educated ones). By crafting a proper post, you can get both types. Maximize your chances. It doesn't take much more time to put in just a bit more effort.
5. Have a hosting option.
If you can't host at your place or your friend's place, be ready to get a hotel room. Make it as easy as possible on the woman.
6. Understand the vulnerable position the woman is placing herself in.
Especially if you're looking for a single woman to meet up with you and your buddy. Think about it: She, a female, is going to meet two complete strangers, male, and have sex with them. That's a lot of risk to take. Much more risk than it is to you.
So try to be understanding and accommodating. Try to provide all the reassurance she might need: Face pics, voice verification, meeting in public first... Make it as easy on her as possible.
7. Don't be super picky.
You probably aren't a model and most of the women on CL aren't either. I mean, 70% of U.S. adults are overweight or obese, there is no reason why CL would be an exception. Every now and then you get lucky enough to meet someone really hot, but often you'll have to satisfy for less.
8. Be prepared for a lot of fakes and flakes.
It's Craigslist, many people are not who they say they are, and many people are not people you'd want to be associating with, sexually or otherwise. There are men posing as women, bots posing as people, ugly people posing as hot people; there are crazy, disrespectful, racist, sexist, homophobic, desperate, weird people; there are people who think they want something until it's time to go through with it. Just accept that as part of the CL game and don't take anything personally.
9. But give people the benefit of the doubt until they prove to be fakes.
Don't doubt every single woman who posts an ad or responds to yours just because there are many fakes. Some of the women are real and it's really annoying for the real women to have their veracity questioned in every single email by every single guy.
10. Be a cool person, open minded, and respectful offline and online.
Even when the other people turn out to be fake, crazy, disrespectful, and flake out on you.
Of course, none of this guarantees you success, but it will increase your chances of finding what you are looking for. Depending on the city where you live, the time of the year/month/week, and just pure luck, you may score the first time you post, you may have to post many times before you get lucky. Patience is a virtue. As is keeping your expectations low.
Good luck, and I'd love to hear your stories, successful or not.
Pervertically Virtuous | August 22, 2013 at 10:29 am | 

Tuesday, August 23, 2016

TMI Tuesday: August 23, 2016 ~ Relationships

It’s TMI Tuesday and I'm a bit paranoid all these questions have been directed at me exclusively! ;)

1. Do you want a divorce or to leave your present romantic relationship?
~ No to both, but I do think things need to change. I am not 100% happy and I can't help but think my wife will leave me once our daughter is older and has finished school. That may sound overly negative but I believe it in my gut. It's just the track my wife is on with her high rollin' friends. I am becoming (in her mind) the millstone around her neck. 

2. Do you think your relationship needs couples therapy?
~ Yes, we've done it twice before and things got better but... things eventually always 'go back to normal'. After what happened in this post I think we need couples therapy again - but I know my wife won't do it. She thinks it's a waste of time.

3. If your relationship needs fine-tuning, what would you do to tweak it?
~ I honestly believe I've done all I can, and it's really up to my wife to make some changes. Which she has to want to do first. I'm not sure she wants to since I think she's pretty happy with how things are for her. She pretty much gets to do as she pleases. As she jokes to everyone herself "I live in [MrsNero]Land. It's a pretty good place to be - everything revolves around me!"

4. Is your relationship over or are you just in a bad phase? How long has the bad phase lasted so far?
~ It's not over 'till it's over, but it's not great. The relationship is quite one sided at the moment: what she wants is what she wants, and if I don't like it then I have to fuck off and let her have her fun. 

5. What kind of relationship do you envision will make you happy?
~ I'd be happy with a relationship in which both people participate equally. I am left with the feeling that I am always mindful of what she wants but she in turn has no regard for what I want. What I want doesn't matter. If I'm lucky what I want coincides with what she wants, but if not then it aint happening. 
Sexually I'd also like a relationship in which both people participate equally. If I didn't initiate sex then we would never have sex, which I find bizarre given that she always seems to enjoy herself when we do. But lately (see this example) there's a 50/50 chance she doesn't want me to penetrate her, nor does she care if I get off or not (especially if she's got hers already).

6. Are you seeing someone new?
~ No. There is no 'someone new'. 

Bonus: What major regret do you have so far in your life? Is it too late to change it?
~ It has occurred to me many times in recent years that the gender roles in our relationship have swapped. I became the stay at home dad while she climbed the corporate ladder, before quitting to start her own very successful business. She stays out late all the time, drinking and 'networking' with clients, going away on business trips, etc etc. If you searched out '7 Signs He's Cheating' on any woman-centric magazine/website you'd see the bad corporate husband doing all the stuff my wife does. It really is that simple. 
Is it too late to change it? I think it is, since I have contemplated 'making a stand' but decided not to. Because I believe if I do there will be no upside, and we will separate/divorce (just like all her buddies in her Business Networking Group [BNG] are doing). And since I don't want to do that until my daughter is older, because I don't want her on the stripper pole, I'll stick it out until she's finished school. Just as I suspect my wife is doing. 
It all reads like a bad movie, doesn't it?

BONUS BONUS: two weeks ago heelsnstocking made this comment on this post
Great answers and I like the links you have provided. Man, you is getting some hot wife pussy (and ass) at the moment....perhaps you should change the title of this blog :-)

Keep up the good work... and the wife fucking ;-)
So, a couple of thoughts hit me when I read that:
1] Yes, I do need to change the name of this blog (so I have - do you like it? don't care either way?)
2] I've been complaining I'm not getting enough sex, but here's someone effectively telling me I am having some hot sex. Sure, the frequency may not be great but the sex (when I have it) is. Am I looking at the glass as half empty when it's actually half full?
3] The answer to #2 is: I dunno, probably. Maybe 'all' I need to do is suck it up and accept that at my age I'm probably having more sex than many others in my peer group - some of whom aren't getting any at all?
4] I'm still jealous of heelsnstocking and all the other TMI'ers/sex bloggers who all seem to be getting all that they want out of their respective sexual relationships because their partners are up for (almost) anything. Maybe I'm just suffering from 'the grass is always greener--' syndrome? 

TRIPLE BONUS: Here's a great story about Gandi's sex life. It's (possibly) not what you thought!


How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!

Happy TMI Tuesday!

Monday, August 22, 2016

Time for a change!

I decided it's time for a change - so this blog has a new name!

It's nothing fancy, but since I decided this blog needs to be more than just me whining about my sex life (not that I won't stop doing that!) I've changed it to... well, you've seen it already. It's right up there, at the top of this page.

Here's what the blog used to look like. Sadly I didn't keep a screen shot of my first Wordpress blog, which got terminated by Wordpress due to 'pornographic content'. That one was called 'Her Secret Library' (named after all the Kindleporn and erotica my wife was reading on Literotica).

look at all those words!

And since that pic is boring here's one slightly less so:

Sunday, August 21, 2016

Bree Olson, reformed Pornstar

In last Sunday's post I gave you a link to a clip on Pornhub featuring Bree Olson, and with it I also embedded a 2013 video Bree made herself in which she explained how the porn business worked and why she quit it. You should watch those first (here) and then also watch this one I'm posting today.

She made today's one in 2016 and she seems more negative towards the porn industry now. Well, maybe not so much the porn industry itself but society in general. She says porn is great but doesn't recommend it to young women because of society's double standard. Because she did porn she says she is treated like a pedophile and now can't work in the medical field or any job with children - which was what she wanted to do.

It sounds like she's had a rough time, and I agree that she's been treated unfairly in the [mainstream] workplace but unfortunately people are assholes and hypocrites - it's just how it is. We all watch porn and yet some of us (not me) act all puritanical in public and denounce the stuff we enjoy at home in secret.

I'm not going to get into it today, since there's no point arguing semantics with Bree. It's her life, she's lived it, and here (again) is her story, updated:

I do have to wonder if part of the negativity she's experienced is due to the notoriety she received from being (for a period) Charlie Sheen's "pornstar girlfriend"