Tuesday, March 18, 2014

TMI Tuesday: March 18, 2014 ~ I'm not that fussy

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Nero posted: " Consumer purchase behavior is much studied. These questions are about your buying behavior with respect to different products. 1. Name a category for which you are very fussy and only one product will do. Name the product. ~ I'm not that fuss"

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TMI Tuesday: March 18, 2014 ~ I'm not that fussy?

by Nero
Consumer purchase behavior is much studied. These questions are about your buying behavior with respect to different products.
1. Name a category for which you are very fussy and only one product will do. Name the product. ~ I'm not that fussy. Seriously
2. Name a category for which you are fussy about quality and buy top-of-the-line brands. ~ I'm not that fussy. Seriously
3. Name a category for which you are most interested in price, and will buy whatever brand is cheapest. ~ Fast food
4. Name a category for which you are unable to find a satisfactory product. ~ sex surrogates - there must be a better way than burdening my wife with these incessant demands, right?
5. Name a product that has disappeared from the market for which you have been unable to find a satisfactory substitute. ~ I'm not that fussy. Seriously
6. Name a product that you buy that your mother or father used to buy. ~ Jack Daniels. Seriously
7. Name a product that you won't buy because your mother or father used to buy it. ~ there is one product I won't buy because of my 'Mommy issues' but I'm not telling, sorry.
8. Name a product that is over-rated. ~ expensive whiskey
9. Name a product that is under-rated. ~ expensive champagne - it's so much nicer than the cheap stuff!
Bonus: If there was one product that you would re-invent or improve, what is it? ~ My wife. She looks and feels perfect but there's some sort of operating malfunction. She doesn't perform like some of the female sex bloggers I admire. I follow the operating manual but the results vary…
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Nero | March 18, 2014 at 11:30 am | Tags: real world, TMI Tuesday



Wednesday, March 12, 2014

Comment: "TMI Tuesday: March 11, 2014 ~ Emotions"


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"The emotions aren't always immediately subject to reason, but they are always immediately subject to action"  - Quote …
I really liked this, Nero. And I'm glad you aren't dwelling on the what ifs of your wife's fidelity. I wish you had no doubts but I think it's healthier to be less concerned, and more "what shall be will be". I need more of that in my life. Much more, lol.
Thanks! And good luck with your situation! 
~ Nero

Tuesday, March 11, 2014

TMI Tuesday: March 11, 2014 ~ Emotions

I used to have a blog on Wordpress that got terminated due to pornographic content. Here's one of those posts... (NB: the links are all dead so don't bother)


Nero posted: ""The emotions aren't always immediately subject to reason, but they are always immediately subject to action"  - Quote from philosopher-pyschologist William James Laughter: What makes you laugh? I find all sorts of things funny. My humor is broa"

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TMI Tuesday: March 11, 2014 ~ Emotions

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"The emotions aren't always immediately subject to reason, but they are always immediately subject to action"  - Quote from philosopher-pyschologist William James
emotion faces
  1. Laughter: What makes you laugh? I find all sorts of things funny. My humor is broad but I edge towards the darker, drier, sarcastic form of comedy. I don't tell jokes myself, but I often make little quips that make others laugh.
  2. Anger: This past week, who or what really pissed you off? What happened? The external drive that I kept all my music files on died last week. Now iTunes won't play (no, I didn't use the cloud) so I will have to reload ALL my music. Worse, the drive also held all the erotic images I've been collecting, that I use to illustrate this blog. And I had some REALLY good pics. I'd also been keeping a folder marked 'Nero's Fantasy File' - images that I planned to use to start a standalone Tumblr blog (photos only). I've restarted the folder but it will be a while before I get enough to start publishing. (You can find a taste of my tastes down below, in the 'Bonus' section).
  3. Fear: What phobia did you have but overcame? I'm not actually afraid of anything ie I'm not phobic and I've bungy jumped! I've put aside the fear that my wife might have (or be having) an affair by making the decision to let it go, since I have no control over whether she does or not.
  4. Surprise: Recently, what unexpected act or behavior did you experience in your sex life? I was surprised how easy it was to 'let go' of my fears (see #3 above). Once you stop worrying about something you… stop worrying about something! Possibly connected to this was that I recently wondered (it didn't quite reach the level of 'fantasized') what it would be like to watch my wife have sex with another guy.
  5. Trust: Many on-going relationships have a certain predictability about them. Does that certainty translate into trust? I guess I don't trust my wife 100%, although I have no valid reason not to. Some of her behaviors are perplexing but proof of nothing in themselves. My issues are based on my reality: if she isn't having sex with me (as frequently as I crave it) but is an outwardly sexy woman then I presume she must be getting it somewhere else.
  6. Excitement: Who do you excite? All my female followers of course - haha! But seriously, I know I don't excite my wife sexually*, which makes me sad if I dwell on it. God knows I try, but I can no longer get her aroused simply through my own actions. Her desire for me is fueled by her dirty stories and alcohol - not together! (She doesn't drink and read). She thinks I'm overweight and (although she loves me, of course!) she has grown tired of the familiarity I provide. Which is why I try to switch gears a lot, but her response to that is quite random. When she's in a mushy mood (or drunk) she will tell me what a great guy I am, how she got 'one of the good ones', and that I'm the only one who truly 'gets' her. (But no, this is not followed by us having sex - boo!) ~~ [^^^ *once we do start I get her off, of course, sometimes more than once. But it's getting her into bed that's the problem]
Bonus: What intimate activity do you share with your partner, something that is meaningful to your relationship? For example Sunday breakfast in bed, cooking, maintenance spanking, etc. Maintenance spanking? Haha, that's spanking her/him for no good reason, right? We used to have brunch, or spend the day in bed, before our child was born - but those days are long gone. If our daughter has a sleepover elsewhere we use that morning time to … sleep in.
Bonus Bonus: here's the image I promised you in Q2 above. It's very soft - I'm saving the hard stuff for when I actually get that page going! I like it because she's the quintessential sex doll. She looks like she's down to fuck, and she'll do the nasty stuff too.
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Nero | March 11, 2014 at 10:30 am | Tags: down to fuck, realworld, TMI Tuesday




Monday, March 10, 2014

A picture of Me and my Wife: March 10, 2014

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Nero posted: " I ate my wife out like this once. It was also in a hotel bathroom (but more modern than this one) and she was bent over a little more so I could really get my tongue in. She* loved it. I think it was because it was different and I took her by surpr"

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A picture of me and my wife (almost)

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This is not the original image but a substitute - as you can see
I'm not eating her out. Hopefully I can find the original (2015)
I ate my wife out like this once. It was also in a hotel bathroom (but more modern than this one) and she was bent over a little more so I could really get my tongue in. She* loved it.
I think it was because it was different and I took her by surprise.
Which is a subject PV blogged about.
(*I loved it too)
Nero | March 10, 2014 at 10:30 am | Tags: Assplay, cunnilingus, novelty, Oral, realworld



Friday, March 7, 2014

3rd Comment: "I leave the house for 50 minutes, and this happens..."


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No sex all weekend, I take off for work, but I'm called back because a contractor can't switch off the electricity …
Okay, that was just downright hot. What she's reading isn't my cup of tea but what she's doing certainly is! I'm with G - your wife is ready for more!
I know, right? But when I try to take it further she baulks. ~ NERO

Thursday, March 6, 2014

2nd Comment: "I leave the house for 50 minutes, and this happens..."


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No sex all weekend, I take off for work, but I'm called back because a contractor can't switch off the electricity …
Good, I'm glad you feel like taking more of a dominant role in the future, because you are right that its a passive way to get sex. You deserve better. It's making me hot to imagine you turning her around, spanking her ass and telling her to repeat, "I'm daddy's little slut" until it sounds like she means it. Then get real close in her ear, saying how hot she is, how hard she makes you. Then make her feel it. 
(Btw, kids next door - like hot young male "kids"?)
Haha - no. But there were some contractors working next door so they might have been able to see something if they looked up. (But I don't think she's an exhibitionist - I tried to fuck her on a darkened hotel balcony on the 24th floor one night and she wouldn't - she was worried people in the other hotel across the road [Vegas] might see her [I suggested that was half the fun!]) ~ NERO

the Sequel: March 6, 2014

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Nero posted: "Last Thursday I published a post about some advice I'd given a fellow blogger about fulfilling her fantasy (you can find that here). She has since replied to tell me how it went, and has a few more questions: Well the night wasn't worth getting an "

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The Sequel

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Last Thursday I published a post about some advice I'd given a fellow blogger about fulfilling her fantasy (you can find that here). She has since replied to tell me how it went, and has a few more questions:
Well the night wasn't worth getting an over night sitter for.
The sex was good and he was forceful, but not what I was hoping for. I didn't get tied up, whipped, or flogged, blind folded or any of the other stuff.
I am not sure he saw the tools that I had laid out to the side of the room until we were done, and I am not sure he really knows how to go about dominating.
So here are my questions:
do I watch some videos of what I want done with him so he can see how I want to be treat and the things I want done?
do I ask him why he can't give me what I want?
do I just let it go as a fantasy that will NEVER be fulfilled?
do I seek else where to live out my fantasy at least once or a few times to see if this is something that is better to stay in my head?
I do believe that he is trying. He has been more forceful and demanding and manhandles me a bit more then before. But I really am not sure if it is that he just refuses because of his prudishness, or if he just can't do it because he is a submissive, or what?
Any insights on this for me?
I'm pleased he's trying, so that give you hope - right? In answer to your questions:
1] do I watch some videos of what I want done with him so he can see how I want to be treat and the things I want done? 
~This is a great idea and something you should definitely do. Guys aren't big on reading 'How To' manuals, but they'll watch porn and think 'I can do that!'. Watch how he reacts to certain scenes, and -more importantly- let him see how YOU react to certain scenes. Be sure to say "mmmm, that's hot" when you see something you like.
2] do I ask him why he can't give me what I want?
~ Not yet. Wait until you think you've given him every opportunity to give you what you want. But if you keep setting the table and keeps refusing to eat, then ask him why he's not hungry.
3] do I just let it go as a fantasy that will NEVER be fulfilled?
~ Some fantasies are best left as fantasies, since the reality never matches up. Others would argue that if you keep working at it you can make it happen. Others again would say that like a drug, the first time (it happens) is the best time and it will never be as good after that. 
4] do I seek elsewhere to live out my fantasy at least once (or a few times) to see if this is something that is better to stay in my head?
~ I think you should at least try it with your husband first. If he fails or refuses and you feel you really really need to experience what you crave then… try elsewhere. But if you do, bear in mind: i] it's cheating ii] what he doesn't know can't hurt him iii] the only way he can find out is of you tell him (because you're angry with him and blurt it out, or you can't deal with the guilt and 'have to confess') or someone else involved in the affair tells him (or you don't hide it very well). Cheating is a moral issue you will have to deal with on your own. But remember: it's not cheating if he gives you permission! (Good luck with that, haha)
If you do decide to cheat and go elsewhere to fulfil your fantasies you need to prepare yourself for one important thing first. How will I protect myself from becoming too attached to my Dom/Master? It's a very heady experience and if you go through with it you may end up in a position where he/she controls you beyond the limits you first imagined (you may even think you've fallen in love with them because they're giving you everything you craved). A good Dom/Master should know the difference between realworld and fantasy, and not do anything to jeopardise your marriage. 
Good Luck! ~ Nero
Thanks Nero -
Like always, stellar advice.
We will start with baby steps and try to ease him into it. Porn to show him what I crave and see where it goes from there.
I will keep you posted on my progress and will check back for your input.
I will also continue to follow you in your journey!
— filledwithfantasies
Nero | March 6, 2014 at 11:30 am | Tags: advice from Nero | Categories: 




Wednesday, March 5, 2014

Comment: "I leave the house for 50 minutes, and this happens..."

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No sex all weekend, I take off for work, but I'm called back because a contractor can't switch off the electricity …
Mmm this was hot Nero. You got used a little there, I like it and I'm sorry for that...
Considering her reading habits I would have to say she might like you calling her a "dirty little girl" or "daddy's dirty little slut" or some other remark that makes her feel like you are taking her control. I know it is a risk but what if it sparks something between you? By the positions she chose to use, it does seem like she wants to take more of a dominant role with you. It is a test, she wants to be put in place, thrown around a little. She claims to deny enjoying certain things when you put her on the spot, but its *so close* to her mind right now, that in that sexual space she will be receptive I'm sure of it. She needs to see you as the dominant, the Daddy. Anal is a control thing, to me, so mental. She loves it when you impale her, take her.
So in this instance, when she is getting this outside stimulus and then acting more aroused around you, I say its because the needs are welling up in her.

MY REPLY TO G: 
"Yeah, I think you and I are thinking the same way (about my wife). She lets/wants me to fuck her when she's horny, but if she's not... I can't. Which is why I monitor her reading, so I can pick my moments. But I do not see this as a long term solution, obviously.
Although it may seem a little passive aggressive, my text to her was my way of saying 'come upstairs and fuck me' (and next time I might text exactly that) and she responded by coming upstairs, but waiting half an hour before she did. I think she wants a dominant man, but doesn't want to submit or give up control too easily. So yes, like you, she wants to be 'taken'. Which is good because I'd like to take her when her please, and I'd like to make her my dirty little slut and have her call me Daddy. (Mmmm, you've given me a little hard on G, making me think of this :P )"

I leave the house for 50 minutes and this happens...

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Nero posted: "No sex all weekend, I take off for work, but I'm called back because a contractor can't switch off the electricity (I know the correct circuit on the switchboard). During that time my wife had jumped online and got a quick hit of Literotica ("

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I leave the house for 50 minutes, and this happens…

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No sex all weekend, I take off for work, but I'm called back because a contractor can't switch off the electricity (I know the correct circuit on the switchboard). During that time my wife had jumped online and got a quick hit of Literotica (what, morning coffee not good enough?). She reads quickly:
Update: the story continues….
I came home at lunchtime as well because another contractor had turned up and my wife had guests, so I needed to deal with them. This gave me an opportunity to see what else my wife was reading since she'd taken the opportunity to take a day off work herself. Naturally she didn't disappoint (see photo below) so now I'm thinking I may well take a few opportunities of my own once her guests (and the contractors) have left…
Update: so I sent her this message at 1.19pm
And at 2pm she came into the bedroom, stripped down to her panties, and climbed into bed with me. We spooned as she ground her butt into my erect cock and I fondled her breasts as she squeezed her own pussy. I put my hands between her legs but she was clearly going for it herself, she was already primed and keen to get off. I wondered if she'd been reading her dirty stories in the 40 minutes she took to respond to my iMessage, but my dick was hard and keen for release so I didn't dwell on it.
She removed her panties and climbed up to mount my face. That was a new one, she doesn't do that often - she prefers to lie on her back with me down between her legs - so I stuck my tongue out flat as she delicately rode it. I say delicate because I hadn't shaved - she was dancing her clit just over my tongue, and I caught her looking back to see me fisting my own cock behind her. She must have liked what she saw because she climbed off me ("you're too scratchy") and scooted down a bit before impaling herself on my fat cock.
She continued to ride me, in long slow strokes, taking advantage of every inch she could get. She was clearly loving it, and definitely horny. I was pretty sure she'd been reading her stories by now and wondered what genre she had been reading. #interracial? #taboo? #big cock? She was giving me no clues whatsoever… until she jumped off again, turned around, and mounted me in the reverse cowgirl position.
Her pussy was sliding up and down my length and her asshole was presented for my pleasure. So, she had been reading #anal, I surmised? I held her ass cheeks and enjoyed the view but made no attempt at assplay - if I've read her mood wrong I could kill it by just slipping my thumb in there - but she continued to grind up and down my cock, mashing my balls into her clit, still hunched over, still showing that big gaping rosebud…. I couldn't take it anymore.
I licked my thumb and slid it in, holding her bowling ball style as she gasped and grunted and pressed harder back against my dick. I started thrusting upward now, pumping my cock in and out of her slick cunt as my hands gripped her butt. She was wedged on my thumb, held in place, and not able to go anywhere. And she was loving it, moaning and grunting and clearly about to cum. As was I.
"I'm cumming!" was all I could manage before holding her still and pumping my load deep inside. Her pussy clamped around my cock, her asshole clamped around my thumb, and I knew she was cumming too. Her contractions were so tight my dick actually hurt…
Minutes later we we spooning again. She had a very big grin on her face.
"I think the kids next door could see me," she said "I tried to stay hunched down…"
Oh, so maybe she hadn't been reading #anal at all. Maybe I was just projecting. Maybe she hadn't been reading anything at all. I chuckled inside… I'd have to find out later.
Nero | March 5, 2014 at 11:30 am | Tags: Biker, dirty little porn library, Literotica, Slave, Submission, Taboo 

Tuesday, March 4, 2014

TMI Tuesday: March 5, 2014 ~ Movie Quotes Rewritten

I used to have a blog on Wordpress that got terminated due to pornographic content. Here's one of those posts... (NB: the links are all dead so don't bother)


Nero posted: "This week's TMI Tuesday write your own movie script. The wonderful idea came from Jz, at A Reluctant Bitch blog. On the heels of Hollywood's Academy Awards, we'll take famous movie quotes and give them a twist. Take the famous movies quotes below a"

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TMI Tuesday: March 4, 2014 ~ Movie Quotes Rewritten

by Nero
This week's TMI Tuesday write your own movie script. The wonderful idea came from Jz, at A Reluctant Bitch blog. On the heels of Hollywood's Academy Awards, we'll take famous movie quotes and give them a twist.
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Take the famous movies quotes below and change them up by filling in the blank. For example:
Gone with the Wind: Scarlett O'Hara should have said: "As God is my witness, I'll never be hungry horny again!"
Below are several famous movie quotes but parts have been left for you to fill in and add a twist.
1. Wizard of Oz: "I've got a feeling we're not in Kansas need of lube anymore." (See movie clip here)
2. Apocalypse Now: "I love the smell of napalm your pussy on my face in the morning." (See movie clip here)  [I really do love that smell! ~ Nero]
3. Casablanca: "Here's looking at you kid on your knees, begging me to fuck your ass, while James Deen films the whole thing"
4. On the Waterfront: "You don't understand! I coulda had class. I coulda been a contender. I could've been somebody Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman, instead of a bum street whore, which is what I am." (See movie clip here)  [Julia Roberts was a street whore in Pretty Woman - everyone seems to forget that! ~ Nero]
5. Star Wars: "May the Force Princess be with you?"  [Sure, I don't mind getting Leia'd ! ~ Nero]
6. Fields of Dreams: "If you build suck it, he will come."  [too easy! ~ Nero)
Bonus:  Silence of the Lambs: "A census taker pasta maker once tried to test confuse me. I ate his liver spaghetti with some fava beans and a nice Chianti."  [what? you thought I was going to suck his cock?]
Bonus Bonus: check out my blog tomorrow for another story on how my wife responded to 'something different'
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Nero | March 4, 2014 at 11:30 am | Tags: academy awards, James Deen, oscars, princess leia, star wars, TMI Tuesday 

Monday, March 3, 2014

Comment: Scientific Study Confirms What I know But My Wife Doesn't: Sex Is Key To A Happy Marriage

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in response to Nero:
Researchers Adena Galinsky and Linda J. Waite from the University of Chicago found that men and women who were sexually inactive or engaged in very little sexual activity reported lower levels of marital satisfaction, whereas couples who had more frequent sexual encounters (including any sexual act, not just intercourse) had happier, more positive marriages. Galinsky and […]
Bad boys just take the women, giving them no choice, (not like rape, because they are so attractive the women just fall at their feet…) Those assholes…
I do this too, "I'm too tired…" I know damn well that if he tried to get me going in the right way I would totally go with it. "I'm just bored with our sex, so I'd rather sleep" might be more accurate sometimes.

Scientific Study confirms what I know but my wife doesn't: Sex is the key to a happy marriage!

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Scientific Study Confirms What I know But My Wife Doesn't: Sex Is Key To A Happy Marriage

by Nero
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Researchers Adena Galinsky and Linda J. Waite from the University of Chicago found that men and women who were sexually inactive or engaged in very little sexual activity reported lower levels of marital satisfaction, whereas couples who had more frequent sexual encounters (including any sexual act, not just intercourse) had happier, more positive marriages.
Galinsky and Waite interviewed 732 couples between the ages of 57 and 85 about sexual frequency, psychological health and marital satisfaction. Their results were published in The Journals of Gerontology: Series B
The researchers concluded, "This study's results suggest that to protect marital quality in later life, it may be important for older adults to find ways to stay engaged in sexual activity, even as health problems render familiar forms of sexual interaction difficult or impossible."
They suggest that caregivers and medical professionals pay attention to the sexual frequency of the older adults they care for and refer them to specialists in couples and sexual therapy if their sex life is lacking.
I'd suggest that my wife realize that men (me, especially) measure their self worth through their sexuality. Yes, it's nice to know what a great guy I am, and how she lucked out and 'got one of the good ones' (as she told me after we watched a chick flick on Saturday night, followed by no sex I'm tired) but that sometimes only serves to reinforce the old adage that nice guys finish last - meaning bad boys (the ones that feature in her dirty stories) cum first. If you get what I'm saying, and I think you do.

These women would eat me alive!