Tuesday, May 24, 2016

TMI Tuesday: May 24, 2016 ~ BFFs, Sex, and Break-ups

BFFs, Sex, and Break-ups

1. Hey, how are you doing?
Funny you should ask - I'm planning to make an appointment with a therapist today so I can talk out the issues driving me nuts vis a vis my wife. After what happened on Wednesday night I think I need my head read, so it's time to stop talking about it and do it! (see a therapist).

2. You are given a strong but soft-to-the-touch (and on the skin) rope. What will you do? (pick just one). Explain your choice.
  1.  Throw it in the garage to use later to tie down a tarp or something.
  2.  Use it for indoor wall rock climbing.
  3.  Tie up your lover and have your way with him/her.
  4.  Lasso your secret crush and take them with you.
I've had this thought for a while (see here) given my wife's predilection for the 'foreced submission' genre on Literotica.com, however I've never actually done it since she also insists (when I've broached the subject) that she has no interest in it in real life. Then this happened.

3. Tell us 3 reasons why you or anyone should masturbate.
  1. Because scientists have said you might get cancer if you don't. (link)
  2. Because it relives tension and stress, especially if your partner doesn't want as much sex as you do 
  3. Because it feels good, and you need to feel good, and you shouldn't rely on others to make you feel good.
4. Would you have sex with your best friend? Have you had sex with a best friend in the past? How’d that work out – did you stay friends?
No, never done it. It would just be too awkward. I've been very good friends with my girlfriends though, when I was younger. Or so I thought - I tried to stay friends with them afterwards but invariably it became impossible. One or the other gets hurt again because they didn't really just want to 'remain friends' - they wanted to 'get back together'. I learnt that after a break up one should break up completely.

5. What are your top 5 reasons to break up with someone?

are these legs for real?
  1. I don't like you anymore, you annoy me now.
  2. Being with you is not good for me, it's not healthy. You/we're toxic.
  3. It's become clear you are disloyal and/or take my affection for granted. You're a user, not a giver.
  4. I think I like your sister/mom more.
  5. The sex no longer makes up for any of the above.
Bonus: Post an image you find erotic? What about it arouses you?
Ha! I actually have a whole folder labelled Nero's Fantasy File, let me see what I can find... 

I like this one on the right because... she is dressed for sex. Putting aside the fact that it is a posed professional photo, I imagine she's gotten changed in the en suite and come out to surprise her man. I love the corset, the sheer stockings - and the pink ribbons and blue hair are super cute. She looks like she would be really great in bed, a complete sex kitten! (And I've had a thing for chokers since my adolescence in the 70s)

Any pop psychologists out there will probably recognise I'm projecting my own issues here: I've picked a woman who is not only sexually available but proactive in making her desire for sex clear!

To be honest it was really hard to pick just one image from my Nero's Fantasy File folder (there are about 50 to choose from!) and this was not my first choice. I'm going to publish that one on Friday since I know that when I explain why it arouses me it will be a long story ie a full post in it's own right. Maybe I'll make it a regular feature?

So once again, thank you TMI for inspiring me to get off my butt and make Nero's Fantasy File finally happen!

UPDATE: The above image is a little too obvious. I think they wanted something a little more artistic, and less 'porn-y'. This one on the left is also in my folder, I labelled it 'Wet & Wanton in the Bathtub' which I think explains perfectly why I like it... as a voyeur I find nothing more erotic than witnessing a woman's private pleasure.

Double Bonus (teaser): this has inspired tomorrow's post...

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