Wednesday, July 6, 2016

"Interview With a Slut: D"

This is not one of my old posts, but one by Pervertically Virtuous
In the process of recovering my own old posts via email I discovered some of hers. Like me, her old accounts have been terminated, and she seems to have disappeared from the internet. This is a damn shame since I consider her one of the best sex bloggers I've ever had the chance to read and follow. I'm reposting her old posts as a historical archive, and if she ever returns to blogging I'm happy to hand them back to her. 
To be clear: the copyright on this work is hers, and remains with her - I didn't write it and I make no claim to it. (FYI: most links in this post are dead)

Pervertically Virtuous posted: "A few weeks ago I received an email from D, a woman who, after having read through my blog a bit, said the following: "I was super happy that someone else was genuinely extremely sexually active and unattached. I knew there's plenty of us out there, but s"

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Interview With a Slut: D

by Pervertically Virtuous
InterviewA few weeks ago I received an email from 'D', a woman who, after having read through my blog a bit, said the following: "I was super happy that someone else was genuinely extremely sexually active and unattached. I knew there's plenty of us out there, but so many girls say they are when that's not really the case. No one believes me when I say I don't want a boyfriend and that I love hooking up."
D sounded like a kindred slutty spirit, so it gave me an idea for a post and possibly a new regular feature: An Interview With a Slut. Real female sluts (i.e., those who are truly highly sexually promiscuous, not those who've gotten a false reputation) may be a minority, but we are out there. So I'd like to give a voice to some of us here on this blog. There are many stereotypes about slutty women, and this is an attempt to provide an insight into the lives and personalities of real, actual slutty women. Whether you're a fellow slutty blogger or just a regular slutty reader, if you'd like to be profiled on Pervertically Virtuous, email me to let me know.
Please note: I use the term "slut" as a synonym for someone who is highly sexually promiscuous. But I know that many highly sexually promiscuous women do not embrace the word slut, and that's OK, I want to hear from and profile you too!
For now, here is the profile of our first Slut, D.
Give us a little background about yourself (age, location, race, education, looks...).
19. Female. Seattle. Caucasian. Accounting undergrad. 5'10". Dirty blonde. Slim-ish.
How do you define your sexuality?
Adventurous
How do you feel about the term slut? Do you consider yourself one? Why/why not?
I wholeheartedly embrace the word Slut. I had sex with 4 different guys in a fraternity in a week in a half. About week or so later my friend was asked by a guy in the house (who I'd never met) if she was friends with me. He then told her I had made a quite the name for myself there. He meant it as a warning or gossip, I asked for a slut trophy- I'm still waiting for it to arrive.
When and how did you lose your virginity? How did you feel about that experience then and/or now?
I was a late bloomer- I lost my virginity soon after my 19th birthday. But I think the experience perfectly set up my sexual life. It was in a bathroom with a guy I met that night. And never planned on seeing again. It didn't hurt that much, he moved me around since I had no idea what I was doing. He bent me over the sink, and I watched in the mirror. He laid me on the ground and fucked me. Then I sat and gave him a blow job. After he came, we chatted about sex tips and then got dressed and rejoined the party. Classy and heartfelt, I know.
I got tested after because we didn't use a condom, I had chlamydia. As awful as it sounds, I wasn't upset over it, not as much as I should have been. I took care of the problem and was just dying to try more, I had so many ideas in my head of things I wanted to do.
How many people (men, women, trans) have you had sex with since? 
25 guys. Some many more than once, some without knowing their names.
What are some sexual things you've done (think types of sexual activities, types of partners, locations, situations, etc.) and what are your favorite sexual things to do?
Locations: Beds, living rooms, frats, kitchens, showers, hotels.
Situations: I've been tied up and pinned down. I've asked to be called names for the night and was called whore and slut until morning and loved it. I broke my bed and it's beyond fixing. I've had two guys separately in one night multiple times.
Sexual Activities: I have been blessed with big cocks with a only a couple exceptions. One guy came 6 times within a few hours, with me not far behind. I've had anal, and want to try again. I'm very forward about what I want, and most guys don't get away without going down on me (I don't believe in giving blow jobs without anything in return).
Partners: 17-29. All male. Mostly attractive (we all make mistakes!).
Favorites: Difficult! I'd have to go with classics, oral and from behind while I'm laying on my stomach, but I always like to mix in new things with the 'go-to' positions that feel good.
 Why do you have casual sex with many different partners?
One person starts to bore me. I like to have regular partners because it is nice to have someone get to know what you like, but I find the first time a big turn-on and enjoy different kinds of people and what they're into.
 How often do you orgasm when having sex?
Nearly every time. Oral and fingering make me cum the best.
Do you see yourself in a long-term relationship one day? Why/why not? If yes, would that relationship be monogamous or open in some way?
Not in the near future. I'm not opposed to it, but I'm not seeking it out. Call me a pessimist, but almost every relationship I've seen starts well and then ends, normally painfully. I have friends and family and I'm happy and don't get emotionally attached to the guys I have sex with so I just don't think having a boy friend makes sense. I also recall accidentally going on a date and after feeling horribly afraid that he wanted to date. Thankfully I sex-zoned the guy and we had fun instead before he found a girl to date.
What do you think shaped your sexuality to be what it is? 
I ask myself this question all the time. I have no idea. All I know is that I never wanted to be that clingy girl, and I always liked the idea of being like a dude in the sense of hooking up and not calling. I found the idea refreshing and fun.
I also love having sex.
Do you use protection for vaginal, anal, oral? Do you get checked (if so, how often) for STIs?
I was really good about it and have been getting too lax on the condom use. I've never used protection for oral but normally for vaginal and anal.
I get checked regularly, 3 times so far in about a year- have been clean ever since that first incident!
How often do you drink or do drugs before sex?
About half and half. I'm not really into drugs but many of the guys I meet at parties so a little drinking is normal. I prefer sex with out either person drinking.
Top 5 things on your sexual bucket list?
1. Gang bang
2. Sex in my university's beautiful old, stained glassed, book-lined library
3. Thrown against a wall, clothes ripped off and fucked hard (okay this has already happened, but once wasn't enough!).
4. Using sex toys
5. More intense orgasms with a partner
Has anyone ever said anything to you about your sexual behavior?
I don't talk with a lot of people about my sex choices, but my close friends are pretty cool about it. Although it has definitely rocked the boat a few times. I often wonder if people think I'm trying to compensate for something that happened to me or fill some emotional void. No. I'm not. I've put serious time and thought to the idea and decided it's complete bullshit.
Do you identify yourself as a slut and want to tell other Pervertically Virtuous' readers what that means to you and what it looks like? Email me to let me know and I'll send you some questions.
Have ideas about other questions to ask of future sluts profiled here? Leave them in the comments or email me.
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Pervertically Virtuous | July 6, 2013 at 2:55 pm | Tags: casual sex, condoms, sex, slut, STIs | Categories: Interview 

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