Saturday, September 17, 2016

Never underestimate the power of a blow job ~ Part 3

Like I've said many times in my blog 'Never underestimate the power of a blow job'. By which I mean: ladies, never underestimate the power of allowing your man a sexual release. If you don't want to have sex with him then give him a quick blow job or a handjob. If you don't want to do that either then tell him to jerk off while you watch (or do the same, depending on your libido). And if that doesn't appeal then at least give him permission to masturbate in private - just tell him you've gone off sex yourself but he's welcome to get himself off if he wants to.
 
The reason I say this is because sex is very important to men (and to women too, I know) but if your libido is gone it's unfair to leave him hanging. It's like if he suddenly went vegan and told you it was lentils and tofu from now on so you couldn't eat meat, fish, or dairy anymore. Would you be fine with it, or would you think "I really love bacon?"  You might find yourself sneaking through the drive-thru ordering milkshakes and double bacon burgers with cheese.

It's the same with your husband, but I'm talking about sex so I mean he'll be out finding it where he can get it and is that what you want? God forbid he could fall in love with her because his brain is being ruled by his dick and then he leaves you for her because she wants him physically. To think you could have saved your marriage simply by allowing him a little intimacy every so often - or at least gave him permission to watch porn in private if you really really didn't want to get intimate with him yourself.

Of course not all men will cheat if deprived of any sexual release. They're the ones who internalise it and become very grumpy bitter men. As they get more and more grumpy and bitter they become even less attractive to you, and you become even less inclined to wanting any intimacy with them.

It's a vicious circle.

So try not to get caught in it.

coming soon:
Open Marriages ~ Part 2

3 comments:

  1. "God forbid he could fall in love with her because his brain is being ruled by his dick"

    Exactly, could not bear that, which is a reason why i always make sure he has a release for his sexual desires...

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    1. I'm not sure why we lose our minds when we don't get any, but we do.
      (He says, speaking for all men everywhere, as if he knows)

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  2. Check out May More's post:
    http://ifsexmatters.co.uk/sex-is-life/

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