Tuesday, September 20, 2016

TMI Tuesday: September 20, 2016 ~ Sex, seriously?

Hey, hey, hey. TMI Tuesday is up!
1. Do you think being a sex worker is as legitimate a work option as being an accountant?
~ I am wholly in favor of making sex work legal. It's not called 'the world's oldest profession' for nothing so why should people (because there are male sex workers too) be arrested for doing what plenty of people want to pay for? The caveat of course is that people must be protected from exploitation and abuse if they take up sex work - but there are many countries where it is legal (see list) and they seem to have made it work.
That said I doubt it will ever be viewed as a 'legitimate' work option by most people, even if it is legal.

2. Which of these rules would you follow if your lover had to have it followed in order to be aroused:
a. wear socks while having sex
b. have the lights on during sex

c. have the TV playing, volume up while having sex
d. the room must be in complete darkness to have sex
~ [c] is the only one I can't stand, but I'm guessing I'd cave pretty quickly if that was my only option! One thing I really really hate in amateur porn is when the couple are fucking with the TV on in the background. How can you fuck with CNN or FOX News playing in the background? It totally ruins the moment. Even worse are the cam girls who have the TV playing in the back ground. Nothing says "I'm totally faking it for you while I watch my shows" than seeing a girl ramming a dildo up herself while her eyes wander to a TV screen off camera (which is completely different to her checking her cam monitor).

You can put Giselle Bundchen naked on a horse
but you cannot make her drink
3. You must plan an evening of sex with your lover. Tell us what you’ve planned for the evening.
~ I don't plan anything any more because I'm always thwarted. My answer to the bonus question below is just one example - I've made plans before, which naturally include setting the mood for romance/sex - but it don't amount for a hill of beans if she's not in the mood. You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink.

4. Rule: If one of you is in the mood for sex and the other is not, you give the other 24 hours to ‘get in the mood’ before masturbating. Would this work in for you or in your relationship – why or why not?
~ It's an idea I'd like to try and in a way I've canvassed it already. Much of my frustration comes from her not being in the mood but then I'm not able to masturbate because she has this uncanny ability to want sex after I've masturbated. Maybe she can smell something and that triggers her subconsciously? If my wife gives me permission to masturbate (I actually have a post on this theme scheduled for October) I'm fairly sure she wouldn't want me watching porn while I do it because that would be 'cheating'.

5. Apparently, even though it is the year 2016, some folks still have a “number” that delineates another person from being normal and liking sex versus being promiscuous. What is THAT number for you? According to a recent U.K. report more than 15 sexual conquests for a man can be off-putting, while more that 14 sexual encounters for a woman may give a potential suitor pause.
~ It's actually not something I've given any thought to, since I've been married so long and I'm not on the 'dating' scene. But I do recall it being a question that naturally came up in my early 20s when I was with someone. My wife's number was well ahead of mine, but it didn't worry me because I wanted someone who was sexually unabashed. If only I'd known then that she only had a set number of fucks in her - and had used up so many before meeting me! :)

Bonus: How was your weekend?
~ Ah, I see what you did there. You asked us what our plans for the weekend were last week and now you're following up to see what actually happened. Well, last week I said:

next weekend I want to see if my wife makes good on her promise to resume our scheduled sex 'routine' (see yesterday's post also**)!
and I can now report back... no, we did not have sex. On Saturday afternoon my wife dropped off our daughter to a sleep over so I jumped into the shower to get all fresh and clean. When my wife got home she went straight into the home office and didn't emerge until dinner time. Which I cooked (rare for me) and it was very nice - seafood linguini in a Thai coconut cream sauce. I even set the table, opened some wine and turned on the fire (even though it wasn't necessary). I guess I should have lit candles because dimming the lights didn't set the proper mood. After eating dinner, which she acknowledged was lovely, she went back to her computer because she had important stuff she needed to finish by Monday. Which she did, but no sex for me. 

Double Bonus: You may have missed the Fetish Friday ~ Rubber/Latex post last week. I thought she was super cute and sexy AF.

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