|This is not Lunar Moon, but it is how I pictured her|
when she met Drake in the carpark for the first time
Reading their blogs I can't help but imagine my wife fits their type to a 'T' and it scares the bejeebus out of me. When they talk about meeting their lovers at various times of the day, sneaking out in the evening for fleeting moments, and all the lies they tell to cover their tracks... well, I can totally substitute my wife into their narrative. My wife is always meeting people in town (scheduling various appointments so she is gone for 4-6 hours), going to important dinners with important people that I'm not invited to, getting last minute coffee dates with girlfriends, postponing last minute coffee dates because something has come up and they can't meet as scheduled, etc etc.
Yes, it all makes my wife look highly suspicious.
Combine that with the infrequent sex we have, despite her always presenting herself as very hot, and I can't help but think: maybe someone else is getting what I'm not?
Anyway, here's a few key excerpts from Luna Moon's blog that caught my attention. My responses are in italic.
Sunday, September 18, 2011 ~ In the Beginning...
Ashley Madison is much kinder to women than men...so to speak. Women are inundated with messages and chat requests - men are willing to pay the premium prices to communicate in the hopes that one... one! ...will respond to a flirtatious message or a silly poem. I met Drake through chat. In your profile there are silly little boxes that you check to indicate your sexual preferences and desires. One of the boxes I had checked was "curious - submission." Apparently, this caught Drake's attention, so he sent me a chat request and I accepted.
I received an email detailing what, specifically, he wanted to do to me. It was quite graphic and involved his desire to enter into a Dominant/submissive relationship with a woman. It didn't surprise me that he had held back...many women probably would have turned and run. I didn't...I was pleasantly aroused and intrigued. In return, he was impressed by my desire to know more.
Monday, September 19, 2011 ~ Joining Ashley Madison...
I was not new to Ashley Madison. I had met numerous men on AM and then decided I needed therapy. My therapist told me to sever all ties with them. So I did. I am not sure why I felt the need to go back to AM. I was looking for passion and excitement--which I wasn't getting from my husband. When you've been married for over twenty years, it's easy to see that side of your life go down the toilet... [more]
We had barely known each other a week when we decided to meet. I worked half days on Fridays and his work schedule was flexible, so Friday was the perfect day. He told me how to dress: skirt and top, no bra and no panties. The anticipation was almost too much to bear. When my workday finally ended, I went to the restroom and slipped off my bra and panties.
I drove to the mall with a feeling of excitement and lust. I liked the way he took control. I knew what I was doing was crazy... but I was doing it anyway... He walked very purposely over to my SUV and gestured for me to open the door. He ordered me to pull up my skirt. He fondled me for a few moments and then moved his hand down the front of my shirt and began twisting my nipples. I moaned softly. We hadn't even said hello... [more]