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but look at my boobies. I want you to know I'm DTF!
His situation is very similar to mine: we both seemingly have wives who have become bored with their husbands as they have risen to the top of the corporate ladder, leaving us behind in the dirt as they tell their friends "He's a great father to our kids" but at the same time telling themselves "I just wish I wanted to fuck him, but I don't".
Anyway, here are a few excerpts from his blog, up to the point I'm up to. There's actually more stuff pre December 2011 but it's only at this point that I decided to start highlighting the bits that resonated with me. My responses are in italics...
Tuesday, November 29, 2011 ~ No Time for a Winter (Summer) Friend
He actually seemed like a really nice guy. But apparently his measurements are about 5'10" and 250#'s+ so ... in addition to making Sandra a "golf window" he was not exactly in great shape which opened the door for me. Guys, that's the educational piece for the day to keep your wife off AM - stay in shape, and don't make her a "golf widow!"
But again, I said he always seemed like a nice guy from the way Sandra spoke. It was clear that he adores her in spite of his golf addiction. And I think Sandra really does care for him although it may be more as an old piece of furniture that frustrates you because you don't know what to do with it but it's too sentimental to throw away. Hey, that's exactly how Shannon feels about me - it must be karma!
I also have trouble cumming sometimes too, but I have no trouble getting hard or staying hard. Does that still count as ED? It's dysfunctional, at least. I tell myself that the problem is because I am in a constant state of repressed desire: I am constantly repressing my desire to make love to my wife so when the chance finally arrives I can fuck her, but I can't cum. It's all 'bottled up' somewhere, stuck in a box inside a closet where I've locked the door and said "No, you can't come out!"
The problem is compounded when my wife wonders why I'm taking so long and asks 'what's the problem?' She thinks I've been jerking off (I haven't) or that I don't really desire her (I do). The problem is that on the rare occasions we do have sex my brain starts telling me my wife doesn't really want it and I'm effectively raping her ('why would she want an old fat fuck like you when she meets so many hot guys?'). Then it becomes a real headfuck.
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