Thursday, May 25, 2017

Sensual Blogger Award

This is not one of my old posts, but one by Pervertically Virtuous
In the process of recovering my own old posts via email I discovered some of hers. Like me, her old accounts have been terminated, and she seems to have disappeared from the internet. This is a damn shame since I consider her one of the best sex bloggers I've ever had the chance to read and follow. I'm reposting her old posts as a historical archive, and if she ever returns to blogging I'm happy to hand them back to her.
To be clear: the copyright on this work is hers, and remains with her - I didn't write it and I make no claim to it. 

My comment to her is at the very bottom so keep scrolling 
(FYI: some links in this post are dead, others are good)

recovered post by Pervertically Virtuous

Sensual Blogger Award

by Pervertically Virtuous
Here's my 2nd blogging award nomination - for the Sensual Blogging Award, and I've been nominated for it by 3 different sexy, sensual bloggers: Nero from Her Secret Library, Nate from Speaking Out on Nate, and KDaddy from Kdaddy23's Blog.

This is an interesting award to receive - and from multiple people too - because I don't see myself as a particularly sensual person (or blogger). I'm highly sexual person (or blogger), yes, but I don't know about sensual.

Sensuality can be defined as an acute awareness of what the senses perceive, a preoccupation or devotion to that which is smelled, touched, heard, tasted, and seen. But I rely more on cognition to navigate the world rather than senses - I use the senses to provide only the information that I can then process intellectually. Also, sensuality for me is intricately linked to romantic, and I'm just not a very romantic person.

I'm not saying I'm not sensual at all - I am, but I'm just not particularly sensual. I like to think of myself as more raw, carnal, lecherous...

I also find it interesting that all three nominations came from men.

Why do you think that is?

Anyway, I'll accept the award so that I can pass it on to bloggers more worthy of it than me.

The Rules:
  1. Thank the blogger who nominated AWARDED you with a link back to their blog blogpost where they nominated you (so they get a pingback). Thank you Nate, Nero, and KDaddy!
  2. Copy and paste this fine award on your blog. Check.
  3. Answer 7 "sensual" questions posed by the blogger who awarded you this fine award. Given that I was awarded this by 3 different people, 21 questions would be too many to answer. So, I'm gonna pick and choose 7 out of those 21 questions. See below.
  4. Create or borrow 7 "sensual" questions for the bloggers you award this fine award to to answer. The bloggers I award this fine award can pick and choose 7 out of the remaining 14 questions posed by Nate, KDaddy, and Nero that I didn't answer.
  5. Select 7 "sensual" bloggers to award this fine award to, AND LET THEM KNOW YOU'VE AWARDED THEM (Two of the three people who nominated me didn't bother letting me know, I happened to find out because I read their posts.)
My Answers to the Questions.
  1. Everyone has a scent that takes them back to a fond moment, what is your scent and the moment? (Nate) Salvatore Ferragamo. It's not a moment, it's a person: my girlfriend. I wrote about it recently in Love, Interrupted.
  2. One piece of sensuous advice that you would give to anyone? (Nate) Touch more. Not just your sexual partners. Friends, strangers, anyone. I come from a culture that touches/hugs a lot, and I find the US to be a very touch-deprived society. Touching is wonderful.
  3. What do you do to initiate something sensual/sexual? (Nero) It depends on the situation. Most often I start with touch. Sometimes with words. And sometimes with just a look.
  4. Is sensuality a male or female trait? (discuss!) (Nero) I think it's more of a female trait. But since my own brain is wired like a male, I don't have much of it.
  5. Name the one thing you've done that you've said you'd never do. (KDaddy) I don't usually say I would never do something. I know better than to say that. Cuz I've done a lot of things I never thought I'd do in my life. Like have a live-in slave. Or punch and kick someone for an hour. Or get married.
  6. You learn that your partner has a lover and they've brought their lover home to meet you – and it's your lover; what do you say or do? (KDaddy) Awesome! It's 3-some time! :)
  7. If you could go back and reinvent your sex life, would you? (KDaddy) Nope. I wouldn't change a thing. Except starting to blog about it sooner!
Bonus question - Write an erotica paragraph with a set of prompts. I'm gonna skip this bonus question for 2 reasons:
1. Because I lack imagination to write stuff that hasn't actually happened to me, and
2. Because I've been writing about my actual erotic adventures so much over the past couple of weeks for this blog, that I'm just spent.
Pervertically Virtuous | May 25, 2013 at 10:27 am | Tags: blogging, sensuality, sex, smell | Categories: Awards

Nice responses PV. I also had trouble answering mine because like you I’m ‘sexual’ not ‘sensual’, so I also answered my questions in terms of sexuality not sensuality. I’d already figured you think/behave more like a guy, but that will change in time. Not that you will change, just society. You are on the vanguard [...]

thanks Nero.

I sure hope you’re right about the societal changes that are coming. I wish that thinking was more commonplace among women. But there are all sorts of evolutionary reasons preventing them from feeling/thinking that way in addition to the social norms. it’s going to take a while for things to change I think… 
Pervertically Virtuous


  1. So weird to remember my blog from four years ago (Her Secret Library) that PV refers to in this blog post.
    Her Secret Library was on Wordpress and I had a decent following and there was lots of discussion and ... Wordpress decided one day my blog breached their terms and conditions vis a vis pornography and just terminated me. They didn't even give me the opportunity to download/archive my content so I could move it somewhere else. It was like coming home from work and finding your house had been bulldozed and was gone...

  2. Bloody censorship - so annoys me - freedom of speech rules as long as the children are left in peace. But to be frank there is a lot worse they can see on line than a bit of porn that's for sure.

    1. It's their platform (Wordpress) which they provide for free so I get that they can set the rules any way they like; but it would have been nice if they'd done something like 'your blog is closed from public view, you have X days to archive and move your stuff, just take it and go because we don't want you here anymore'. Even when you get fired from your job they let pack up your stuff before you leave; they don'y just lock you out of the building and say 'tough luck' when you tell them your jacket and bag are still in your (former) office.


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