I don't know if you've noticed but I've been making a whole bunch of sexualized posts here and on my Twitter and Tumblr accounts lately (some I’ve now deleted). These stem from my having abstained from sex since January 4th. Well, I didn't so much as abstain as not get any. As I mentioned on TMI Tuesday earlier this week:
5. Your most unexpected achievement?
~ I haven't had any sex of any sort since January 4th (not even solo) and yet I've managed to keep it together. Usually I start climbing the walls, but this time I've been able to contain myself. The trick is to watch lots of Netflix and not join your wife in bed - otherwise you just upset yourself festering over the sex you're not having with that woman lying next to you.
I decided I would not initiate and see how long it would take for her to initiate sex. The experiment has been terminated at 20 days because my wife left today for 8 days in China. She's at a BNG 'conference' but that's only 4 days so the rest is shopping in Hong Kong. Or fucking her lover - what do I know? She has quite literally told me nothing about where she's going, where she's staying, or how I can contact her. I only know the conference is 4 days (3.5 really) because I googled it.
UPDATE: the excerpt is too long! So you'll have to wait for Part 2 which will be posted in 2 hours, I promise!! (here's the link to Part 2)