Tuesday, June 12, 2018

#TMITuesday ~ June 12, 2018 - Me Me Me

What do ice-cream and sex have in common? We discuss both in this week's TMI Tuesday, that’s what...

1. If you were an ice-cream flavor, what would you be and why?
~ Mint choc chip, because I'm black Irish. 
No, I'm not - but that is my favorite flavor for now. I guess the correct answer would be vanilla dipped in chocolate dipped in nuts because although I might seem a little nutty when you get to my core I'm just vanilla at heart. Actually I like a little lite kink so maybe make that vanilla with a licorice twist.

2. What are the best sexy skills you bring to a sexual relationship?
~ A willingness to listen and make the effort to please. I also really enjoy cunnilingus but apparently you can't say that now because its bragging and therefore douchey?

3. What is the single largest problem causing you angst in your romantic relationship (current or most recent relationship)?
~ My wife and I have mismatched libido's but that's common and I address it regularly in my blog. My second issue is my wife's failure to communicate what she wants, which makes my answer in [2] above more theory than actual.

Phil Lynott from Thin Lizzy, possibly the world's
most famous black Irishman © Wikipedia
4. What is the best part about being in a relationship with you?
~ I am what I am so take me as you see me. I am very empathetic and willing to compromise but don't mistake that for weakness ie don't cross me. See also [2] above!

5. What is the biggest misconception that people have about you?
~ People think I am distant or aloof but the truth is I can never remember their names so sometimes I don't talk to them when I see them again! I had an accident in my early 20s that nixed part of my memory bank, and working in a nightclub during the same period made me partially deaf in one ear for certain audio registers. Meaning sometimes I can't hear a word people are saying at loud parties, meaning I have to pick up on their nonverbal cues and nod and smile as if I can understand what they're saying.

Bonus: When you look at old photos of yourself, do you like what you see?
~ Of course! I was young thin and pretty and ladies loved me! My wife often tells people that when we met I used to be thin but her mother always told her that the way to a man's heart was through his stomach so she used to cook me three course meals when we started living together - including dessert! It's a funny story but an equally viable version might be that she was fattening me up so no other woman would want me! (My wife is a great cook, and has reaped what she sowed)

Double Bonus: You can read about my last sexual encounter here, it involves some very 'lite' spanking. In my #SoSS post I'm canvassing your opinions on whether sex toys desensitize your clit (and the male equivalent).

How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!

Happy TMI Tuesday!


  1. I love it when people like cunnilingus, and how awesome your wife is a good cook

    1. Yeah, she's great. Her father taught her - he was a chef.
      Hence I can never match him :-)

  2. I certainly identify with #4, and appreciate it in other people!

  3. You really got me thinking now... I am not keen on ice cream, but if i was an ice cream I would be a fab208 - its got lots of layers of different flavoured lolly and assorted sprinkles and a very slight chocolate coating on the top end.

    My man met Phil Lynott years ago


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